Here's the nub of the problem, and possibly an explanation of why the older generations voted leave:
In 1975 we voted to join a common market with eleven other countries. Our elected representatives negotiated with the elected representatives of eleven other countries on matters of trade, goods, tariffs etc.
The EU is not a country. It has no democratically elected representatives, and the people of the 28 member states have no democratic control or oversight of the "management" team. It is the antithesis of democracy, it is an uber-quango.
It is unelected and unaccountable. It has not even produced qualified accounts for two decades, highlighting what money it has taken from the member states and where that money has gone. It is a non-theistic religion that exists and survives for its own purpose.
The welfare of the 28 member states do not concern it, the welfare and livelihoods of the populations of those 28 member states do not concern it. It grows, it gorges, it punishes, it robs and it abuses ... and no-one, until today, has had the balls to stand up to it and challenge it. It is a hellborn abomination.
As member states our democratically elected representatives have no say on how it operates or even on the terms of operation. When it deigns to listen, in the interests of "democratic virtue signalling" it ignores what it hears - just look at the treatment of Greece and Italy. But it demands, it orders, it controls, and for some perverse reason we believe that the EU word is law.
It is time to slay the beast.